Communications is very crucial in marriage!!!!!!!!!!!!! please make
sure you make good use of your words …………………………….
A lot of times, couples get pissed off with each other by the way
they respond to spoken words. We can do better if we learn
response in the *affirmative* and not in the *combative*. Read the
1. *Statement:* I’m really hungry.
– *Wrong response:* Even I myself have not eaten since morning.
– *Right response:* Oh sorry, let’s see if there’s something you can
manage for now.
2. *Statement:* Why don’t you try this option?
– *Wrong response:* Why is it that you always find fault with what
I do?
– *Right response:* Well, I’ve tried this before and I think it will
work. If not, I’ll try that.
3. *Statement:* I want more food.
– *Wrong response:* Ha-ha, rice has finished, garri has finished,
and ingredients are almost finished, and there’s no sign of salary
– *Right response:* Sorry, please manage that for now; I’ll find
some snacks for you later.
4. *Statement:* I can’t finish this food.
– *Wrong response:* Ha-ha, things are expensive o; and you can’t
be wasting food like this. You will eat it tomorrow!
– *Right response:* Should I keep the rest for you, or give it out?
5. *Statement:* I got wounded in kitchen.
– *Wrong response:* I’ve told you to always be careful with the
– *Right response:* Oh sorry, let me have a look. You need to be
more careful next time.
6. *Statement:* Are you okay; is anything the matter with you?
– *Wrong response:* Can’t you see yourself; what kind of question
is that?
– *Right response:* I’m not feeling fine; I think I need some
7. *Statement:* I’ll like to eat corn flakes.
– *Wrong response:* No way! It’s for the children; and that’s for
one month! Take garri if you are hungry.
– *Right response:* Okay, you can eat a little. I trust you’ll give us
money to stock another.
8. *Statement:* Haven’t you finished what you are doing?
– *Wrong response:* You are seated there doing nothing and you
are asking if I’ve not finished!
– *Right response:* It will still take a while; can you please lend me
a hand?
9. *Statement:* I bought this on my way; I thought it will be useful.
– *Wrong response:* How much did you buy it? What! That’s too
expensive – wọ́n ti gbá ẹ!
– *Right response:* Thank you; it will indeed be useful. Thanks for
the surprise.
10. *Statement:* Handle that thing carefully please.
– *Wrong response:* Am I that daft? You will just be instructing me
as if I don’t have any sense.
– *Right response:* Yes dear, I will.
*_A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up
Prov 15:1


  1. Ok good

  2. Ok

  3. Thanks

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