6 signs to show a man is immature in marriage

Below are the signs to show a man is really not ready for marriage:

1. Rejecting food when there’s an issue:

Mr husband, you gave your wife money for
food and after it was prepared you refused
to eat because you are angry. It’s one of the greatest signs of
immaturity, it’s time to grow up! You should not even abandon
your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry
but ensure that you don’t allow it to linger unnecessarily because
that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women
can be really troublesome.

2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect
you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or
scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It’s
important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your
feet down over issues, however don’t become a nagging husband
just to prove that you are the head.

3. Issuing threats:

beating, verbally abusing
your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
bragging about marrying another wife does
not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise.
Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control
your fist. When she is acting her “childish woman” part, play the
“matured man.

4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:

When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don’t have to tell everyone about her
mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you
will not be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?

5. Keeping malice:

is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them
even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It
may make you look like a “big boy” who’s in control but you are
not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a
den of insults and confrontations.

6. Not helping with house chores:

I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend
and manage a home when she chooses to be a full time house
wife. However, it’s not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when
necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every
evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only
increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you’ll help,
just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her,
this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the
boys. Some men don’t even say “thank You” to their wives after
eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It’s a shame
that after having 3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or prepare cereal meals; a big shame.
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of
depression.

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3 Comments

  1. Good information

  2. Nice information

  3. Thanks

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