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I am a man,but today I want us to discuss about PREGNANCY. Do
you know that certain things you do when your wife is pregnant
actually contributes to state of health of the mother and unborn
child? Listen, it bothers me a lot when I see men showing no
concern to their pregnant wife or fail to adjust to some temporary
changes!!! It’s just 9 months, not like it’s forever. Pregnancy is not
bought in the market, neither is it a software downloaded from the
internet. It’s a seed planted by us men and is germinating. There
has to be a carrier of that seed while it grows, and women have
been given the responsibility to carry it. Pregnancy is preparation
to welcome a new member into the family. Pregnancy is a journey
fun filled, amazing etc. Women differ in body changes. Although
Pregnancy makes women do certain things in common. ■Once in
a while she would nag ■Once in a while she would request for
things unimaginable e.g she wants to eat okro and bread ■Once in
a while she would get so lazy to make you your meals ■Once in a
while she would want to stretch her legs on your laps. Please
pardon her… carrying the baby ain’t easy. Her needs may be
unsatisfiable at times. The first Tri_mester of the journey can be
so annoying. Like I say women differ from each other during
pregnancy. ●While most women are busy vomiting. ●Most of
them sleep like water leaf, they sleep off anywhere with the
slightest chance even in the kitchen. ●While most women have
fever. ●Most women be looking cranky and dry like Dustin
powder. ●While most women add up weight. ●Most women
appear like burnt offerings. ●Some even go round with White
handkerchief spitting in it. ALL THESE ARE STILL OUR WORK…..
Please tolerate this, it’s beautiful afterwards. Her attitude
becomes annoying, most times you cant stand her. But I get
annoyed when I see men like me neglect their pregnant wife. She’s
not an abomination, neither is she a curse. I must say, it’s not an
easy journey for all. The last Tri_mester is when we need to be
extra patient, loving, enduring and understanding. NOTE… 1)
Always observe your wife’s feet while pregnant, it swells often.
Please give her a basin of water to soak her leg once in a while,
it’s one of the best treat women enjoy during pregnancy. 2) Ask
her regularly how she feels and how the baby is. She’s the carrier
so she feels him/her move. 3) Tell her how beautiful she looks
during pregnancy e.g ” Honey see as the pregnancy make you fine,
I will be impregnating you every month ooo” or even “is it my child
that makes you fresh like this pass normal” Even if she has grown
bigger in size cause of the pregnancy, celebrate her. 4) Don’t be
upset if she ever wakes you up by 2am to help massage her feet.
We need to feel little of her discomfort and pain. She shouldn’t
carry it alone, it’s our baby,we need to carry it together. (I don’t
mean physical carriage though). 5) No rule book stopped sex
during pregnancy, in short it’s the best sef…. do it. It’s not like
the vagina stopped working during pregnancy. o boy continue the
work that brings the pregnancy. 6) Don’t be ashamed to take her
out. Take her out once in a while to those lovie dovie places you
used to go together. #They_love_it… Most times I wonder what
crosses the heart of men when they see their pregnant wives.
Carrying a child for 9 months isn’t easy. I urge all men to get
closer to their spouses during pregnancy because that’s one of the
times she needs you most. A big shout out to all men who fully
stand by their wives during pregnancy.

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  1. lol

  2. Ok

  3. Is This True

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