Barack Obama Introduced Himself to a Crowd as “Michelle’s Husband,” and I’m Emotional

Once again, Barack Obama is making my heart soar with his love for Michelle. As one of the cutest celebrity couples by far, the former president and first lady are regularly trading sweet messages on social media and giving each other loving shout-outs. That’s why it’s no surprise (but still absurdly cute) that Barack referenced Michelle as soon as he started his remarks at a leadership forum in Oakland, CA, on Feb. 19.

Barack and NBA player Steph Curry teamed up for an event marking the fifth anniversary of the My Brother’s Keeper Alliance, which was created to mentor young men of color. Barack introduced himself not as the 44th president or by his accomplishments, but as “Michelle’s husband.” He proceeded to call Steph “Ayesha’s husband.” Aw!

During his remarks on Tuesday, Barack encouraged young men to see past the culture of toxic masculinity that’s so prevalent today. “If you are really confident about your financial situation, you’re probably not going to be wearing an eight-pound chain around your neck,” he said. “If you’re very confident about your sexuality, you don’t have to have eight women around you twerking.”

“‘Cause I’ve got one woman who I’m very happy with. And she’s a strong woman,” Barack continued. It’s hard to deny that these two have a lot of love and respect for each other.

INI Edo set to remarry for the second time

It seems beautiful southern Nigeria brown sugar actress, Ini Edo has got brand new butterfly in her stomach.

This was gathered after the Baby girl, Ini was recently found snicking into hotel room of a 3 star hotel with Le Boo somewhere in Lekki, where they inhale and exhale carbon and drink alcohol, very compatible duo.

Le Boo is an IJGB’ ( I just got back) dude closely related to traditional rulers of the Land of Excellence. It’s great that Ini has found love again and this time in deep hot romance with the Lasgidi big boy, we all hoping she doesn’t get burnt in the process.

Their love life is not new to keen observers as the love birds are overly excited and would do everything to keep this love affair secret till the wedding date, so she can sort out issues.

Iniekim Edo, popularly known as Ini Edo is a Nigerian actress. She was born on April 19, 1982 in Calabar, Cross River state, into a family of six.

She attended Cornelia Connelly College in Calabar for her secondary school education, and crowned it with a diploma in Theatre Arts from the University of Uyo in Akwa Ibom. She later went on to study for a full degree in English at the University of Calabar, Cross River State, Nigeria.

Her foray in Nollywood started during a school strike, when she went with a friend to an audition. She got the role in the film ‘Child of Destiny’. However her breakout role came when she acted in the film, ‘World Apart’(2004) and since then she has not looked back, going on to act in more than 100 films such as ‘Games women Play’ Games Men Play and the sequel ‘Reloaded’.

Ini opened a new chapter in her career when she executive produced a soon-to-be-released film, ‘Memories of my Heart’.

In recognition to her contribution to the film making in Nigeria, she was made a Glo Ambassador by the telecom giant Globacom. She is also recently signed a deal to be the Face of Chivita, the popular juice manufacturers. Ini is married to Philip Ehiagwina and loves reading novels, watching films and dancing in her spare time.

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How to make a woman fall I love with u all the times

what’s friendship/ relationship??

Let me  start by define what friendship is about.

Friendship can easily be define as the process of having a close relationship with one and another, for the purpose of:

1 for funny

2 for interaction.

What’s relationship??

Relationship can simply be define as the process of having a close personal affairs.

Now what are those things that make Man look  attractive woman.

1 be intellectual.

2 behave mature.

3 always look neat.

4 avoid problem.

5 don’t be rude.

6 learning to appreciate.

Be intellectual, it’s good to be intellectual, no girl on this will like to date a guy that  is not intelligent, without intelligent you can’t control them.

Behave mature, try to control your lifestyle, for no woman will like to date a guy that can’t behave himself.

Always look neat. Your looking neat all the times caused her emotional and make her value you.

Avoid problem, it’s clear to understand that smart guy don’t make problem, when you do it make her feel bad, and think unnecessary.

Don’t be rude, your state of being doesn’t make her love you rather it make her hate you the more.

Try to respect her decision and make her feel very great.

Learn to appreciate, if you’re a take don’t appreciate you will never be satisfy.

If you don’t appreciate the little gift she offer you.

It make her think badly and always thinking of what next to do.

Do those things and your girl will never live you.

5 ways to seduce a classic girl

Wanna know how to seduce an olderly lady? now hop in let me take you on the journey of “how to attract an olderly lady”

Different ways of thinking, begots different actions and reactions we perceive from different people. thereby, making it possible to see different preferences when it comes to a choice of woman.

Now, if you want to seduce an older woman, it’s completely achievable. I know, you may be surprised, thinking you’d need a specific skill in order to do this, but really, it’s not like that at all.

Note, this doesn’t mean you can hook up with every older woman you set your eyes on, come on, don’t get cocky. But, if you follow these tips, you’ll be able to work your magic and eventually seduce an older woman. It may take a couple tries, because, you know, practice makes perfect.

below are a short list of the do’s and dont’s which will enable you achieve such.

1 Don’t think you’re smarter. Here’s the thing, when a guy seduces an older woman, try not to act cocky and know-it-all. It’s going to work for you. Don’t try to approach them like you’re an older guy because you’re not.

At the end of the day, you’re younger and they know it. So, yes, be confident but don’t act like you have the secrets of life in your hands.

2 They’re not into games. I know you have a set of games that you pull out of your pocket when you want a girl, but it’s not going to work this time. These women have seen every game in the book. They’ve heard every line so whatever you plan, drop it. Though they do like being charmed and flirted with, as all women do, they’re not into mind games. Your games will backfire.

3 Don’t be too forward. Like I said before, older women don’t like games. But this doesn’t mean you walk up to them and ask them if they want to get laid. Though, you can be more direct to her in comparison to a younger woman. Just know there’s a difference between being forward and being rude. A big difference which may result in you getting what you want or not.

4 Show confidence. If you approach any woman, regardless of age, confidence is a very important factor in seduction. If you want to know how to seduce an older woman, you need to remember that she looks for a man who’s self-confident. Show her that you’re capable of handling her and the age difference isn’t an issue for you. She may like younger men, but she doesn’t want to hook up with someone who’s immature. This is when you show her you’re more than that through conversation and self-confidence. remember, confidence is quite different from being rude!

5 Don’t be a stage 5 clinger. Listen, this can be used for any woman, never mind her age. Show her that you’re independent and not needy. Being clingy isn’t appealing to women. Show her through actions and words that you’re an independent man. It’s okay to leave her at the bar for a little bit and then come back to her. She’ll be impressed that you’re not drooling beside her.

Girl: stop living a fake life, keep it real

Be unique Darling…..

To the girl that thinks “I’m just perfect”

You were born to be real, not to be perfect

Tell her we love her plain!

You know, if it involves fake smiling, I’m out!

I’m trying to mind my business but, I see girls getting themselves uncomfortable just to fit into any damn trend that’s up, it’s heart breaking though.

Look, stop trying to get everyone’s love, get their respect by being “you” I mean, the real you.

You hate beans? Don’t be shy when offered beans, say ” thanks but I don’t eat beans ” no one is goanna kill you for saying that. Don’t endure a pain that you can avoid.

Don’t feel stupid if you don’t like what everyone else pretends to love

You love wearing loose clothes? because they make you feel free? Go on dear, wear them (don’t mind what the busybodies are goanna say)

You’re angry, show it!

Don’t try to hide your anger if you can’t do away with it instantly ( keep a free heart)

You love going without make up?…ride on, you’re chick!

Confidence level: selfie with no filter

You love flat shoes, not always comfortable on heels?…feel free.

If you don’t like it stop putting up with it

Start doing things the way you like it, yes! people will point out and say whatever they like about your lifestyle but I mean, you wear the shoe and you know where it’s hurting you right?

Do the right things, the right way. You know when the morale comes? That’s when you’re doing the right thing.

So girl💕 let’s be real here.

5 signs to know you’re dating the wrong person

Love is a beautiful thing but some emotions can be mistaken for love.

Sometimes, in hindsight, we may sigh, beat ourselves up, and shake our heads when we remember the people we dated or thought we loved in the past.

To avoid such situations, it is important to be alert enough to know whether the person you’re currently dating is good for you.

Here are some ways to know you’re dating the wrong person:

Conversing with them is difficult

If you find it difficult to hold a meaningful and interesting conversation with a partner, it’s very much possible you are both not meant to be together.

The power of good conversation is that it allows individuals to learn more about each other and convey their feelings, ideas and
hopes comprehensively.

On the other hand, if it is difficult discussing individual and collective future goals together, you also probably may want to
double-check if your current partner is the person for you.

Feeling low when you’re with them

Every good relationship is one that is filled up with mutual respect, support and encouragement. If your current partner is lacking in any of these qualities, it is high time you thought about your rapport.

No one should ever make you feel less than special, most especially not your partner.

If you always feel less beautiful, less smart, or less human when you’re with your partner, then it’s totally obvious you two are not compatible.

Worse still, if your partner either mentally, physically, verbally or emotionally abuses you, it’s best you flee the relationship.

Dating is designed for individuals to learn from, love, grow together all-round, and be happy in. Any relationship causing you sadness, depression, anxiety and torment should be discontinued.

They’re too clingy

We all want attention, especially from that special someone. But like every other thing known to man, too much of everything is unhealthy. A partner that is too clingy is a big no-no.

It’s cute and adorable when a partner calls or texts several times a day to check up on you but when a partner begins to constantly want your 24-hour day to day attention, maybe it’s time to pause and question if you really want to be dating that person.

A jealous partner will never trust you and will constantly find a means to blame you for things. Never, ever think a jealous partner will change overnight because they won’t.

They never seem to listen to you

At the top of the list of relationship killers is ineffective communication and this involves listening.

If your partner is never interested in what you have to say, then that’s a big problem. Chances are that such partners will come in between your dreams, goals and aspirations, often dismissing them.

Some partners may even go as far as pretending they listen to you but deep down, you know they don’t. If you feel this way, maybe it’s time to back out.

Your gut feeling tells you the relationship is not working. If your intuition repeatedly tells you something is not right with the person you’re dating, chances are, you might be right.

It’s never enough to ignore the way our minds feel about others, especially someone we are dating and serious with

4 ways to get her fall in love with you

From your date ideas to how you stay in communication, take these tips from experts on how to make a woman love you.

4 powerful ways to get her fall for you

You met an amazing girl. She’s beautiful, funny, intelligent, and doesn’t seem to be out-of-her-mind crazy. Obviously you want her to be into you, too.

Nothing’s worse than getting shoved into the friend zone or getting so nervous to impress that you scare her away indefinitely.

To make sure that doesn’t happen, we reached out to dating experts to figure out what works (and what doesn’t) when it comes to catching her attention. Here are seven surefire ways to nudge things along to a second date.

1. Tease her

Your first instinct may be to hold back and watch what you say as you get to know her, but that can backfire and make you appear dull. So don’t be afraid to disagree with her over who should’ve won the pageantry or lightheartedly tease her about her taste in music.

Back-and-forth banter may actually help you stomp out any first date tension. If she’s laughing and having fun in a conversation, she’ll feel much more relaxed and will more likely be attracted to you.

4 powerful ways to get her fall for you

2. Don’t be too serious

Okay, okay, falling in love is about connecting on deeper levels and having important conversations and shared values. But it’s also about having fun when you’re together! If you can’t put your guard down, make jokes, try goofy activities together and release stress, then she won’t feel comfortable around you. After all, there’s something empowering about knowing your partner is equally as weird and ridiculous as you are.

3. Compliment her

Though it might seem trite and insincere to dish out compliments left and right, your words can be powerful. While sure, you should take note of her physical appearance since a lot of women put a lot of effort into looking nice for their date.

But also, offer flattering remarks as you get to know her – including her brilliance and her humor, her presence and more. When she feels like you’re taking the effort to get to know her and taking note of her qualities, she’ll feel comfortable being herself around you.

4. Surprise her subtly

Everyone appreciates thoughtful actions and it’s important to continuously surprise her. Catch her unaware with that fetching coat she has been eyeing, a message on her work voicemail or a note in her bag lunch. This not only keeps her guessing but it will brighten her day and put you to the top of her mind.

4 questions you should never ask your partner

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Relationships teach us about ourselves most times, our tolerance level and emotional limits. No matter how upset you are, or how hurt you feel about your partner, there are just some things you shouldn’t say to them, because it could mark the beginning of the end of that relationship. Below are 4 questions you should never ask your partner:

1. Are you sure you want to be with me?

Though it is important for the health of a relationship for each partner to praise and cherish the other, each partner is actually responsible for their own basic level of self-respect and self-confidence. If you need constant validation on a basic level, then before long, your partner will find it difficult to admire or respect you. The solution to this is to make sure that you would want to be with you, and that you already enjoy being yourself. When you feel great in your own skin, it’s much easier for you to have the clarity of mind to actually assess whether the person you’re with is a great match for you and genuinely appreciates you.

2. Can I trust you?

Are you telling me the truth? It’s never a good idea to ask these questions point blank. Firstly, it puts your partner on the defensive immediately. Secondly, you can never trust the answer you’ll get. This is because if you’re not fundamentally sure you can trust someone, then asking them whether or not you can trust them will only drive you crazier.

3. What’s wrong with you?

Why are you always doing that?’ It’s never a good idea to make a negative judgment or a blanket condemnation of your partner because it will simply reinforce the exact negative behaviors you’re trying to change because your judgments push them to isolate from you. Instead of attacking your partner personally for what you don’t like, share what you do like and how you would feel or do feel when they do those things. You might have to become introspective and creative to find out why certain things are so important to you.

4. Are you breaking up with me?

Asking this question during daily conflicts is an unnecessary and emotionally destructive threat. if you actually want to break up right there, then just say so and follow through with it. Otherwise, ask genuinely clarifying questions of the other person. If it feels too heated right then, take a step back, reevaluate as objectively as possible, and discuss the matter again once the atmosphere has calmed.

5 things men attract right woman

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If you have been searching for ways to attract the woman you dream to give your life then your search is over as I have prepared for you some super secrets.

Here are 5 secrets to attract that woman you feel is right for you;

1. Be an honest man

Honesty is key here and what I mean is be honest with your feelings.

Package all your feelings towards her and present them in an honest way.

Do not express what you feel for her shallowly or in a way that can’t satisfy her.

2. Be humble man

Humility is a very precious virtue no man should lack. When you are around her, always be humble and don’t be the kind that brags of his wealth or possessions.

Women love humble men

3. Always take care of her needs whenever you can

Whenever she needs something and you can do her the favour always remember to never fail. That’s how it starts.

Offer her a helping hand whenever she is in need.

4. Listen to her

When you share moments together, give her a listening ear and an understanding mind.

No woman truly loves like a woman who gets listened to.

5. Always compliment her

If she dresses nice or wears some classy makeup, at least give her some compliments.

She will feel how concerned you are about her. Women love being recognised.

She really love you if she does this five things

Ever wondered how you would know a woman really loves you, these five things below answers your questions. Although the list is inconclusive [no list is actually ever that accurate actually], these will provide enough info for starters on the subject.

1. Reveals secrets to you

If she trusts you with that kind of information, it means she’s serious about keeping you in her life–for a long time.

2. Hardcore flirts with you

If she’s going the extra mile to be being touchy feely, she has a serious crush on you. She actually isn’t playing around. Or she could just be horny.

3. Indulges your excesses

If she likes you, then she’ll let you get away with a lot more than you should.

Things that other men [and even her own friends] will never get away with, she’ll permit them if it’s you doing them.

This is not an excuse to intentionally maltreat women.

But, if by chance, you are yet to really get your act right, and a woman repeatedly lets you go scot free, best believe she really likes you.

4. Pays a lot of attention to your needs

Women in love are givers. It is one of the ways to know if she’s in love with you. Whether it’s her attention, gifts, care, food, or affection, she’ll want to lavish something on you.

It’s one of the many ways to know that she’s in love with you. But do not also forget that she may just be generally nice to everyone.

How to know that you are special is to gauge the percentage of the things she gives to other people and the one she gives you. If she’s doing more of these things for you than for others, you may be onto a woman who really, truly has hots for you.

5. She smiles a lot with you

A woman who is in love with a man would laugh a lot around him or at least smile a lot.

It is because she enjoys the time and enjoys his company. The happiness on her face is yet another one of the best indications for a man to know whether the woman is deeply in love with him or not. On the other hand, you could just be a clown who knows how to make people laugh.