Relationship

It seems my wife want me to sleep with her sister . A man cries out

With all indications, it seems like this man’s wife wants him to sleep with her sister and he is already tired of their antics that he had to take to a popular forum, Nairaland to seek for help. In his narration, the man revealed that his wife’s sister of about 22 years, who just came around to live with them, walks around the home in transparent night gowns and she does it even while his wife is around, but the wife never complains about it. Seems my wife wants me to sleep with her sister – Man cries outRead his full write-up below: I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about. This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. Sh...

4 things you should not joke about in a relationship

A joke is basically anything that makes you laugh and it is usually not meant to be real, sometimes its made up, other times it’s real but the major fact is that they are not serious about it. In relationships, it is good to have fun and joke as much as possible. It’s good to have a good laugh often. Being with someone means that you get close to them and you let all your guard down and that makes you familiar with them. Most people take that for granted and they tend to cross lines in the name of jokes and fun. The biggest truth about jokes is that anything you constantly joke about becomes a part of you, you think about it, and with some time you may be welcome to the idea of doing it yourself. General things you should never joke about 1. Abuse Any form of abuse is deadly, i...

3 things you shouldn’t say when you fight

When people argue or fight, a lot of things are said, hurtful and sad things to each other. We forget that whatever we say cant be retrieved, it’s not like a chat that can be deleted, once it is said it is said. When you are arguing, any and everything could be hurtful. A simple “why” could make the person feel like you are saying they can’t explain things properly, why else would you ask them why when they already explained it to you, so you are trying to say they are ****. Do you see how I just turned a simple way to a big deal? This is why you have to be very careful what you say when you fight, somethings should not be said if you want the relationship to last. Things you should never say when you fight 1. Anything to Criticize There are things you would no about your partn...

Things you shouldn’t tell third party about your relationship

Relationships generally have a lot of things happening in them. When you start to share your life with someone, spending time and doing all sorts of things with them, you get to see and hear things that you otherwise wouldn’t have access to. In other for the relationship to last, you need to be careful about the things that you disclose to other people. Somethings should never leave the confines of the relationship. Things that should never leave the relationship 1. Flaws and embarrassing habits Everyone you see has things about them that they are embarrassed by, things that if they could they would never let anyone know. On the outside, away from their homes, you would never see these things. You find out some of them if you are in the inner circle, but then there are some things you woul...

Top 5 signs of fake love in a relationship

To really know that the love in your relationship is genuine or not, here are some of the signs to look out for. Your black world Is the love in your relationship real, or fake? If it is, all you should do is keep growing the love, keep staying truthful to each other, keep drinking a lot of water, and just keep treating each other in all the good ways that will allow the relationship thrive further. On the flipside, fake love is not something anyone would want to live with. Sadly, it is exactly what some people have in their relationships. If the relationship is based on anything different from a genuine willingness to see the other person flourish in every sense of the word, if it is based on something fleeting and temporary, then it is likely fake. To really know that the love in your re...

5 relationship rules you should never break

1. Be kind Kindness goes a long way. It could be a kind word, a smile, or an act of service. Also Read: Advice: 8 Relationship Rules You Have To Break Don’t stop being nice to each other just because you’ve been together for a while. You could be one careless action or mean remark away from losing your partner. Don’t let uncaring ways become a habit. Demonstrating compassion is a powerful way to show love. Psychologist Susan Boon says kindness shouldn’t be a one-time act you do on special occasions or when you want something. Kindness must become second nature if you desire relationship success.“You have to do nice things often. But it’s harder to be nice when the heat is on, when you’re really angry, or when something has happened for the 15th time. Nevertheless, the balance must be heavi...

8 Reasons you are a woman who is difficult to forget

Some people place a lot of importance on how they might look. And that’s okay. Looks are important. You are going to be able to attract the attention of a lot of guys if you are a good-looking lady. But here’s the real truth: looks are forgettable. And at the end of the day, you might be able to attract a guy with your looks. But a man of depth is only ever going to want to be with you for the more profound reasons. It’s not always about looking cute. You have to make sure that you have a personality to go with your good looks. You have to make sure that there is more to you than meets the eye. Because the more beautiful layers that you add to your entire persona, the more difficult it will be for any guy to forget about you. If you are indeed an unforgettable woman, then it’s likely that ...

8 signs that your relationship is failing

When relationships fail, it doesn’t just happen, most times it started showing signs first before it became a reality. one major cause of failure in relationships is that we don’t notice the signs, and when we do we ignore them. for those who don’t know what these signs are here are some of them. Signs your relationship is failing 1. No communication Communication is the key to the success of every relationship. You get closer when you talk, you know each other better when you talk, and issues are fixed many times by simply talking about it. Over 70% of relationships are conversations. If you are in a relationship and you can stay for a day or two without talking to your partner then that’s an indicator that the relationship is failing. 2. Spending less time together At t...

10 Reasons he only text you at night

That might be the case, but there are some other reasons he might be texting you at night instead of in the light of day—here are a few of them.He’s bored.He’s chilling alone at home. so he decides to see if you’re up. While this guy can be annoying with his “u up?” texts—thanks, dude, I actually was asleep until you messaged—he might just want to chat. Of course, he has to realize he can come across as super-selfish. A lady needs her beauty rest! He’s lonely.If he’s regularly texting you (and not just at night), this doesn’t have to look suspicious. If he only ever texts late at night and it seems like he’s always desperate for a chat, however, that’s a red flag. It’s like he doesn’t want to actually date you, he just wants you there whenever he needs you. He’s a workaholic. The guy only ...

Why should just be allowed to marry more than one wife

 Women are wonderful creatures and a man should have as many as he can handle; as long as he can be fully responsible for all of them.  If anything, when it comes to choosing leaders with the focus being on family, I will elect a polygamous man any day, because a man who can manage more than one woman is definitely worth his nuts. When you have only one wife, the monopoly overwhelms her and that, my friend, is detrimental. When she knows she has no competition, she will be careless in the kitchen and serve her man what even a dog would think twice before eating! She would sulk like a baby and think she is entitled. But when another woman is in the picture, that will stir her competitive side. It would be a continuous struggle to outdo each other, just so they could please the man. I really...

The need for husbands to accommodate their wives

“You husbands, in the same way, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered.” The most popular understanding from this Bible verse is the point where the Lord is encouraging us husbands to love and treat our wives well, so that when we pray, our prayers may not be hindered. But tonight, there is another side of this Scripture that God wants me to show you. Listen guys, when you love and treat your wife right, it is not like God sees your works and releases a blessing on you from heaven, that isn’t how it works. When you love your wife right, and honour her, the honour causes her to open up and pour out the favour she carries on you, it...

13 DANGEROUS BEHAVIOURS OF MARRIED WOMEN

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court. 2. The wife that uses s3x as a weapon in the home – placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers lacks wisdom. 3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of “women’s rights” to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself. 4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him. 5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to p...