Exposing your secret is an evidence to knowing true love

If your romantic relationship isn’t a platform where you can strip
yourself of your ego and be vulnerable to the deepest then it’s not
ideal. I mean, intimacy means divulging everything about you, the
freedom and liberty to be open, sincere, and real in a relationship is
priceless. You’d not have to fake nothing. You’d have the
confidence to tell your girl that you have a flat bank account and
totally broke. You’d have the boldness to tell her you haven’t eaten
since morning because things ain’t fluffy. Now there’s fulfilment in
this kind of relationship.
I find it highly ridiculous that some guys, even ladies lie to keep up
a huge perception of themselves before their lovers. If you can’t be
open to your lover, who else will you be able to loosen up for?
Why even date them?
A bloke I know cannot tell his girlfriend that he’s broke, a lady I
know cannot tell her boyfriend that she doesn’t have money to get
her pads, why? Because they feel it’s weird and it’d bring down
their worth.
Your true worth to someone who truly loves you will be your inner
essence, your very personality, your values, not the things you
have, not a flamboyant perception of you.
Sadly these folks empower their partners to love them for wrong
reasons. If you always avoid telling your woman you are broke,
therefore putting up a financially capable image, most likely she’s
loving an unreal you. She’s loving someone you are pretending to
be. Why not be real and discover if you’re truly loved?
You cannot find real love or build a real and deep relationship if you
ain’t real. You don’t need much from a partner, you need someone
who’ll be okay with your realness; that you have just a pair of
trousers, sleep on a mat, don’t know how to use cutlery, haven’t
flown a plane. I mean all you need is one person who will accept
your ‘naked’ self. Yourself without high public perception, yourself
without ego and anything to hide. This is the beauty of a
relationship. Even with all these, they still treasure you like gold.
Done abortion? Had a messy past?
Tell ‘em who say they love you. It’ll help verify their love. When you
paint a perfect and all sweet picture about you, any love and
acceptance you get is FAKE because you ain’t being real either.
Open up, be vulnerable. True love will accept the entirety of you.
It’s difficult but you see true love isn’t so common.
You don’t need someone who you’re gonna struggle being real
with. You need someone who’ll deal with the REAL you, leaving
you with the comfort to be more real.

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