Nigerian singer Simi is one entertainer we know that never dodges the opportunity to speak her mind, no matter who’s involved.
With this ready known, it came as no surprise that she quickly reprimanded a pastor, who in her opinion puts too much responsibility on women, leaving out the men.
‘women need to understand that men are not emotionally developed as they are, women know what they want from childhood. The average teenage girl has dreams of how her wedding will be. Men as a teenager is just playing ball, he has no dreams of settling down.
He wants sex, men want sex, not relationship. God put so much sexual passion in men, expecting that women will obey him by doing access denied so that if he wants so much sex he should marry. So, he will give you what you want, you will give him what he wants. That was how God planned it, but many women have been sabotaging themselves. So you have been giving it out to people that didn’t put a ring on it.
This is why we have so many single people because a lot of guys are sexually satisfied. Men enjoy sex with more people than with one person. So, you are messing up and sabotaging yourself by giving out free sex. If you do national lock up, these men will marry.’
Well, Simi apparently didn’t share the pastor’s sentiment, as she went ahead to tell him, how his sermons have a huge impact on his followers. And how marriage, isn’t a reward for good behaviour.