Naomi, was so beautiful, pretty and cute like the most beautiful
female journalist at KTN. She was well shaped and every time she
was walking around in Jamuhuri estate where she used to live, no
man could by pass her without looking at her back. She was
admired by almost every man in every place she went to but she
fell in love with one guy from Ngong.
They met at Churchill Show at Carnivore Restaurant and that’s
where everything started from. The guy was loving and caring.
They started as friends but later on became lovers. She loved him
so much such that she gave him all her heart. He was the one who
was keeping the keys of her heart. Their relationship became so
strong. The guy could not wait for their marriage. He started
demanding to climb the tree in the middle of the garden of Eden or
to ride the mountain bike for 20Km. Naomi, could not resist
because she loved him so much.
One day he asked her to spend night with her at Karen Country
Lodge in Karen. She accepted in the name of love. Before she
could leave for a sleep over, she told her parents that she was
going for an overnight prayer meeting at Wold Harvest Int’l- The
Hour Of Blessings. Her parents allowed her to go since it was an
overnight prayer meeting. From there she took a quick shower.
after she finished, she dried herself up and applied some lotion,
then she dressed up and left for Karen to meet her lover. She
arrived safely and had to meet with her lover. They spent a night
together at Karen Country Lodge and the guy did what he really
wanted the whole night. No CDs were used. It was a live musical
Naomi got pregnant and the guy dumped her. He left Ngong and
started staying in Thika with his elder sister. He even changed his
contact number. Naomi, was really heartbroken broken. She was
ever crying with her pregnancy till she delivered after nine months
at RUNH (Ruaraka Uhai Neema Hospital. She delivered a cute
baby girl. The guy was no where to be seen. He forgot about her.
5 years later, she met a guy who was so handsome like her real
father. The second guy she met used to live in a very nice place in
Kawangware actually a city within a city. He was so caring and
loving. It was so interesting the way their relationship started. They
knew each other from Prestige Mall where the guy used to work.
Every time Naomi came to buy her groceries at Prestige, she could
meet with the guy and he could crack jokes and Naomi could laugh
out loud. They became good friends and one day he asked for her
number and she gave him. They started calling and texting each
other almost every day. On his off day he could visit her in
Jamuhuri but he never used to reach her home. He could stop
somewhere near her place where they had agreed to meet every
time he visited her. As days went by, they became so close but
Naomi never disclosed to him that she had a kid.
One day when he proposed her she had to share her story and all
she went through. She told the guy that she had a 5 year old
daughter. The Kawangware guy was so much in love with her so
he said, “Sweety, it happens I can’t leave you just because you
have a kid. I love you and I will always love you the way and who
Naomi responded in tears, “Honey, I love you more.. please never
disappoint me like the previous guy.. hold me tight till the end of
Kawangware guy, “I will definitely do that”
After he graduated from Kenyatta University where he was doing
his part time studies, they got married. He started supporting her
daughter (Charity) like a real father. People could not tell that he
wasn’t the real father because of the love and care he was showing
to the daughter and mother. After he got his degree from Kenyatta
University and got a job with Airtel and stopped working at Prestige
Mall. He started making some good income with Airtel. So they
shifted from Kawangware as a family and started staying in
Hurlingham. In Hurlingham that’s where they had their first child
(daughter) and they named her Peggy. The guy was so happy to
see and hold his first child in his arms. It was so nice and
awesome to have his own child but still he treated his own
daughter and step daughter the same. He bought them almost the
same things and took them to the same school. So Charity and
Peggy never knew that they were step sisters except their parents
and some relatives who knew the secret.
Noami, as the mother never wanted to be a house wife for the rest
of her life. She also wanted to be doing something so that she
could contribute something to the family. So she asked her
husband if she could do some studies for herself to start up her
own business. Her husband supported her move or suggestion but
she could not take a degree because she never had a good grade
for the course she wanted Certificate. So her husband enrolled her
at Kabete National Polytechnic under Secretarial Studies. He even
bought her a Vitz so that she could drive herself to and from
school. From Monday to Friday she could drive herself from home
to school till she wrote her final examination and cleared
everything. After she got her results, She applied at Daystar
University and was accepted and started studying Business
Administrationat dip level. In her final year at Daystar, her Ex
boyfriend appeared. They met at Arcades and the Ex had to kneel
down for her and pleaded for forgiveness as he was shedding
tears. Naomi, broke in tears too when she remembered all she
went through after he dumped her. They hugged each other and
they had lunch together. The Ex humbled himself as though he was
not a crook. Naomi’s husband did not know that her Ex was back
in Nairobi and their friendship or relationship had begun again. The
Ex could follow Naomi at Daystar most of the time and they could
talk from there. One day she shared her story with her good friend
at Ebru TV and the friend was like, “Please, forget about this EX
boyfriend of yours. He will put you into serious problems.
Naomi, “Okay, but I don’t know what to do coz I still love him. He
asked for forgiveness and said he was sorry for everything he did
to me. He wants us to get back together..”
Friend, “Noami, how will your husband feel when he discovers that
you are going out with your Ex”
Naomi, “No wonder am saying i don’t know what to do..”
Friend, “Here is what you have to do: Avoid your Ex. Give him a
distance. Don’t entertain him. Delete him from your mind and
phone book. He is jealous of your happy marriage. Be very careful
you may lose everything”
Naomi, “Okay, thank you so much. I will definitely follow your
Naomi never followed the advice of her good friend at Ebru TV.
She continued going out with her EX boyfriend till she was caught
in the very act by her husband in Pangani. Her husband was like,
“Is this where you do your studies from? Have they shifted Kabete
to Pangani?” He slapped her and started beating her Ex boyfriend.
After being beaten, the Ex boyfriend ran away. The husband drove
home and packed all her belongings. Few minutes later, she also
arrived home and her husband was like, “Don’t get inside the
house here are your things you can leave with your Ka daughter
(Charity). Charity (step daughter) was like, “Dad, what’s wrong?”
Step father, “Ofuwo kendo oran! Just get out with your foolish
mother” Charity broke in tears. She looked at her mother cried out
loud. The husband got the car keys for the Vitz from her hands by
force. Naomi, was in tears and she said, “Honey, please forgive
Husband, “You thought I was a fool. I have heard a lot about you
with your foolish Ex, and todey I’ve witnessed myself. Please go
and marry him, malaya hii”.
Charity was shocked and wondered , “What wrong have I done?
Why are you chasing me with my mom and leaving out Peggy?”
Step Father, “Am not your dad okay? Ask your mom where your
foolish dad is and she will tell you”
Charity, looked at her step dad and her mother and cried bitterly.
Naomi and her daughter (Charity) left. They boarded a bus at Yaya
Centre and went to Jamuhuri to stay at her parent’s home. Her
happy marriage just ended like that. Her Ex boyfriend disappeared
from Nairobi again and went to settle at the Coast. Charity, asked
her mom who her real father was but her mom never gave her a
satisfactory answer. She just said, “Never Mind”
Charity stopped going to school because her step dad stopped
paying school fees for her at Brookhouse School. Peggy the real
daughter continued schooling and was fully supported by her dad
but she missed her step sister Charity. One evening when he came
from work she asked him about Charity her step sister. She really
wanted to see her. The father was bored with questions about
Charity, “Just forget about her. She is not your sister”
Peggy, “Ummmm dad how? I have known Charity to be my real
sister and why did you chase her?”
Father, “It’s a long story never mind”
Peggy, “Okay, but I really miss her.. I feel lonely without her”
Charity, was also troubling her mother in Jamuhuri that she
wanted to see Peggy. Peggy and Charity loved each other so much
as sisters and it was very hard for them to stay apart or
Naomi lost her beautiful marriage. She couldn’t even write her last
exam at Daystar. Everything just went sour. She was ever crying at
her parent’s home every night. She remembered the words of her
good friend from Ebru TV but nothing could be reversed. It was too
late to realise and apologise. She lost it all. Every time she
remembered how her husband loved her so much she could not
hold back her tears. Two weeks later she was found dead in her
bedroom. She took some poison according to the postmortem
report at KNH.
After they buried, Charity went to see her step father in Hurlingham
and when she reached there, she found just about to leave for
work. She looked at him and said the following words as she was
shedding tears, “Dad, my grandmother in Jamuhuri told me how I
was born. I may not be your real daughter or you may not be my
real father but I have been raised to believe that you are my one
and only father I have ever known in my life. It’s hard for me to
live without you and my young sister Peggy… Dad, I want to live
with you forever and I love you so much… Please, accept me as
your own..” Before she could finish talking, her step dad and sister
(Peggy) broke in tears and hugged her. He accepted her as her
daughter and started staying with her again. He took her back into
school. Peggy was so happy to live with her step sister once
again. They could go to school together and study together.
Later on he married an SDA woman who took care of the two girls
(Peggy & Charity) at home. The girls had really grown. Peggy was
in class 6 while Charity was doing class 8 at Brookhouse school.
The girls were also intelligent at school.
Noami’s Ex boyfriend ran mad at the Coast and 5 days later he
was found dead in unfinished house.
If you don’t want any problems in your current relationship or
marriage or life, forget about your Ex. Give him or her a distance.
Don’t entertain them. They will destroy everything.
If you still love your Ex, please don’t jump into another relationship
or marriage. Ex boyfriends or girlfriends will always disturb or
destory your current relationship or marriage. Some of them are
even jealous of your beautiful relationship or marriage. If you Still
want your Ex in your life, please don’t engage yourself in any
relationship. What good is your Ex going to bring or provide or
show now that he failed to do when you were still together?.
Please, wake up and grow in mind!! Stay married to your husband
or wife, and live happily forevermore.
Naomi, was so beautiful, pretty and cute like the most beautiful