1. Rejecting
food when there’s an issue: Mr husband, you gave your wife
money for food and after it was prepared you refused to eat
because you are angry. It’s one of the greatest signs of
immaturity, it’s time to grow up! You should not even abandon
your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry
but ensure that you don’t allow it to linger unnecessarily because
that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women
can be really troublesome.
2. Telling your wife severally that you
are the head: May I let you know that even when your wife
disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head.
You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a
slot on CNN? It’s important for you to know when and how to be
firm and put your feet down over issues, however don’t become a
nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.
3. Issuing
threats: beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of
divorce or bragging about marrying another wife does not make
you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your
strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your
fist. When she is acting her “childish woman” part, play the
“matured man.”
4. Reporting your wife to friends and family: When
your wife offends you, correct and talk things through. You don’t
have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black
and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her
back. By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?
Keeping malice: is it not funny to know that some men keep
malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their
wives names in public. It may make you look like a “big boy” who’s
in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your
home will only be a den of insults and confrontations. 6. Not
helping with house chores: I must say here that it is the sole
responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home when she
chooses to be a full time house wife. However, it’s not a bad thing
if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football
with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how
stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on
your wife and if you truly care you’ll help, just checking on her
while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a
good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don’t
even say “thank You” to their wives after eating, all they do is
compare her with other women. It’s a shame that after having 3-4
kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or prepare cereal
meals; a big shame. My point? A REAL man is a pillar of support
to his wife, not a hole of depression.


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