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Signs that it is time to leave (ii)

In the preceding installment of this article, I mentioned why some ladies would not want to leave a relationship. If you don’t know the kind of relationship to leave, you end up wasting your time and energy on something that will not work.
So how do you identify such relationships?
6. You have different value systems
You two will not go far if you don’t believe in the same things. There is no point going on with it. Save yourself the heartache.
7. He holds you back
A good man spurs you to achieve your dreams and supports you but if he manipulates you into settling for less or tells you outrightly to cut down your dreams, leave him.
8. He keeps taking from you financially
There is nothing wrong with helping your man out but when he is draining you and becomes solely dependent on you, without plans of getting out of that quagmire, run.
9. He is changing/ he is not building himself
Change is inevitable but if he becomes someone you don’t recognize anymore, pack your bags. On the other hand, a man who is not consciously and consistently working on himself is set for failure. Do you want to be part of it?
10. He is selfish
It is not about money. The point is that he does not put you first. Your relationship is a partnership but you both come first to each other. If he always esteems himself above you then I don’t think you should bother being his girlfriend anymore.

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  1. Ok nice

  2. hmmm

  3. right

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