Life and everything about life have governing laws, including
relationship and marriage. Laws are principles. Principles are
laws. Principle is a law or fact of nature that explains how
something works or why something happens. The way we have
law of gravity, law of motion, etc.
The same way also we have law of love, hatred, law of positivity and law of negativity. These laws works differently based on the different theory guiding them. The theory guiding love, hatred, positivity and negativity is that you become what you believe. You attract what you celebrate. You are drawn to the things you like. You are drawn to the things that you always talk about. Your words influence your world, relationship and marriage. Your habits shape your character and draw people of like character to you. You attract who you are. Proverbs 23:7 confirmed, as a man or woman thinks in his or her heart, so is he
These might answer some of your question as a single lady that has prayed for good relationship or praying to get married. Listen listen, if you have traces of hatred, anger and bitterness in you, hatred, anger and bitterness are the things you attract in men and relationship. These are Satanic laws programmed for your failure in life, relationship and marriage. There is no hope for you, except you give yourself to the Word of God to change you. Humility is required on the side of every woman that truly want to attract the right man and stay in marriage. James 4:6 says, God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble. Pride and anger are selfdestructive.
This is why Apostle Paul instructed, saying, do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
Love is a kingdom principle. Matthew 22:35-40 reveals Master Jesus teaching on the Law of love. “Then one of them, a lawyer, asked Him a question, testing Him, and saying, “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?” Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’
This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the law and the Prophets.” Luke 6:37-38 says do not judge. Give and dispense love! The outcome are the result you see in your life, relationship and marriage. As a reason, you attract what you have inside you. “Judge not, and you shall not be judged. Condemn not, and you shall not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken
together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the
same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you”.
Colossians 3:8-11 gave powerful instruction. “But now you yourselves are to put off all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth. Do not lie to one another, since you have put off the old man with his deeds, and have put on the new man who is renewed in knowledge according to the image of Him who created him”.
Luke 6:43-45 says a tree is known by its fruit, For a good tree does
not bear bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. For every
tree is known by its own fruit. For men do not gather figs from
thorns, nor do they gather grapes from a bramble bush.
A good man or woman out of the good treasure of his or her heart brings forth good; and an evil man or woman out of the evil treasure of his or her heart brings forth evil. For out of the abundance of the
heart his or her mouth speaks. Colossians 3:12-17 summarizes, listing out Kingdom laws governing Kingdom relationship and marriage. The opposite are doomsday for you in your relationship and marriage. “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one
another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.
But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him”.