The type of mate you should consider marrying

One of the way your marriage will not add to the rate of divorce in
our world today is for you to marry your mate and if you are
married already, make your spouse your mate!
You see that statement of ‘ Am I your mate?’ does not apply in
marriage. You must marry your mate. I will like to talk on six
dimensions you and the person you want to marry or you have
married must be mates.
MARRY YOUR SPEAKING MATE: Marry someone you can speak
together and understand each other. Communication is very
crucial in marriage. Don’t marry someone that, when you are
saying ‘A’ he or she will be saying ‘Z’. Once their is dichotomy in
your speaking and understanding level, you can’t enjoy that
marriage. So many men go to bar to hang out with friends and gist
till 11pm because they know their wives can’t engage in any
meaning intellectual discussion. So many women too prefer to
hang out with their friends, because they know their husbands
mentality when it comes to vital issues and discussions is very
low. Marry your speaking Mate.
MARRY YOUR ‘SCHOOL MATE: By this I mean, marry someone
you can learn together and improve together. Don’t marry ‘Mr
Know all’ or ‘Miss Know all’. Don’t marry someone who is rigid and
not open to new ideas, new ways of doing things, or new
innovations. Marriage is a great institution. From day one till death
do you part, you will keep learning. Marry your ‘school’ mate;
someone who is ready to learn with you. 

 YOUR SPIRITUAL MATE: Marriage is not just a social union. It is also a spiritual union. Marry someone who knows the same God you know. Don’t marry someone whose believe of God is different from yours. Two can’t work together except they be agreed. The spiritual controls the physical, even in marriage. Check for spiritual compatibility in that person you want to marry.

MARRY YOUR SPENDING MATE: Don’t marry someone who is
stingy. There are so many expenses to cater for in marriage. A
stingy guy in courtship won’t suddenly become a generous
husband in marriage. Don’t marry a lady that has the financial
philosophy of ‘My husband’s money is our money, but my money
is my money’. Marry someone who believes in dignity of labour,
who is ready to work, not a lazy fellow who just want to be a
consumer and not a contributor. Marry someone who is ready to
spend and be spent for the growth and success of the family.
MARRY YOUR LOVE MATE: Marry someone you have feelings for. Love making is not a sin. It is an instinct God put in
every person. Making love plays a major role in the success of any
marriage. Any man you don’t have emotional feelings for, don’t
marry the person. If you don’t have emotional feelings for that
lady, leave her alone. A spiritual being is also a s3xual being. No
matter how spiritual you both may be in your marriage, you won’t
be praying for 24 hours in a day. You won’t be reading the Bible or
worshipping God 24/7. You will make love! You will romance! You
will flirt with each other! You will make babies. So, marry someone
you can connect with s3xually. It will help you to enjoy your
marriage sooooooooooo much!
MARRY YOUR SOCIAL MATE: Don’t marry someone you won’t
be proud to go out with. Don’t marry someone you will be feeling
shy to introduce to people with boldness. Marry someone you are
comfortable to hang out with. Marry someone you are socially
compatible with. Don’t marry an anti-social person.
You might be wondering if you can find all the ‘mates’ in one
person. Yes! The answer is YES! You don’t need to marry 6 guys/
ladies to have all these mates. One person can be all that for you.
If you also work on yourself and build your life, you can be all that
for the guy/lady that will marry you.

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  1. Congrats

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