The way relationship works

It has come to limelight that love doesn’t guarantee the success of
a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all years
round, and on the other hand, cheating isn’t always a product of
not loving your partner. In fact, loving someone doesn’t guarantee
not falling in love with someone else.
Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart.
It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic
intelligence and self discipline because, time will come when you’ll
see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich,
curvy and God fearing people than the one you’re in a relationship
with.
In those times, love will not help you; self control will help you,
emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment
will keep you going. With those characteristics, no matter how you
feel for someone else, the person you’re committed to will rank
first in your life.
You think happily married people don’t see better people than the
ones they married? You think they don’t feel funny sometimes?
You think they don’t catch feelings? They do!
But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is the
great arsenal that do destroy that impulse.
You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes
absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more
than love.
We are too fond of loving when it’s convenient and sweet. We are
too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just
the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then, you’ll realise
that the feelings have dropped, it’s now your responsibility to make
it work, not love’s responsibility.
Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it’s
never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.
On the long run in marriages, it’s not just love that keeps them
together forever, it’s determination and commitment.
Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But
staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and
committed ones do that.
That’s why we must find that one person and commit to that one,
discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.
Building a relationship is hard work, it’s like building a career, It’s
like pursuing a dream. It’s always tough, at some point it will be so
bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together,
you can scale through the trying time by being focus and
committed.
The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of
love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong and be self
disciplined. Please imbibe and share with the young adults, married
and unmarried couples.

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5 Comments

  1. Good update

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  3. splendid

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