Do you know that certain things you do when your wife is pregnant
actually contributes to state of health of the mother and unborn
Listen, it bothers me a lot when I see men showing no concern to
their pregnant wife or fail to adjust to some temporary changes.
It’s just 9 months, not like it’s forever. Pregnancy is not bought in
the market, neither is it a software downloaded from the internet.
It’s a seed planted by you germinating. There has to be a carrier of
that seed while it grows, and women have been given the
responsibility to carry it.
Pregnancy is preparation to welcome a new member into the
family. Pregnancy is a journey fun filled, amazing etc.
Women differ in body changes. Although Pregnancy makes
women do certain things in common.
■Once in a while she would nag
■Once in a while she would request for things unimaginable e.g
she wants to eat okro and bread
■Once in a while she would get so lazy to make you your meals
■Once in a while she would want to stretch her legs on your laps.
Please pardon her… carrying the baby ain’t easy.
Her needs may be unsatisfiable at times.
The first Tri_mester of the journey can be so annoying. Like I say
women differ from each other during pregnancy.
●While most women are busy vomiting.
●Most of them sleep like water leaf, they sleep off anywhere with
the slightest chance even in the kitchen.
●While most women have fever.
●Most women be looking cranky and dry like Dustin powder.
●While most women add up weight.
●Most women appear like burnt offerings.
●Some even go round with White handkerchief spitting in it. ALL
Please tolerate this, it’s beautiful afterwards.
Her attitude becomes annoying, most times you cant stand her.
But I get annoyed when I see men neglect their pregnant wife.
She’s not an abomination, neither is she a curse. I must say, it’s
not an easy journey for all.
The last Tri_mester is when you need to be extra patient, loving,
enduring and understanding.
1) Always observe your wife’s feet while pregnant, it swells often.
Please give her a basin of water to soak her leg once in a while, it’s
one of the best treat women enjoy during pregnancy.
2) Ask her regularly how she feels and how the baby is. She’s the
carrier so she feels him/her move.
3) Tell her how beautiful she looks during pregnancy e.g ” Honey
see as the pregnancy make you fine, I will be impregnating you
every month ooo” or even “is it my child that makes you fresh like
this pass normal” Even if she has grown bigger in size cause of the
pregnancy, celebrate her.
4) Don’t be upset if she ever wakes you up by 2am to help
massage her feet. You need to feel little of her discomfort and
pain. She shouldn’t carry it alone, it’s your baby you need to carry
it together. (I don’t mean physical carriage though).
5) No rule book stopped love making during pregnancy, It is documented to be when the woman need it the most.
6) Don’t be ashamed to take her out. Take her out once in a while
to those lovie dovie places you used to go together. They love it…
Most times I wonder what crosses the heart of men when they see
their pregnant wives. Carrying a child for 9 months isn’t easy.
I urge all men to get closer to their spouses during pregnancy
because that’s when she needs you the most.


  1. Ok

  2. You know pregnancy is a special period for women and it should be enjoyed, so I urge all husbands seeing this comment to help their wives enjoy pregnancy.

  3. Nice one

  4. Ok

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