Why you should never force yourself on a relationship

Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot. You need to stop breaking your heart in trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal.
You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be.

Truth is – Sometimes, the person you want most is the person you would be best without. We just never realize. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay.
In all you do to show love, don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what
should never even have been there even before. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you.

You have got to feel the same. And I know it’s hard when your heart feels that’s the person you could spend forever with. Start to accept that they are not that person you thought they need to be. And no matter how much you hurt and cry, after you heal and get better and find your match, your future will now bring understanding of why things didn’t work out. It is better to be alone and be happy than to be in a relationship and be miserable. If they see you as an option, then they don’t deserve to be a priority in your life.

Never keep awake thinking about someone who is deeply in love with someone else. Never just stay a minute thinking about someone who can’t spend a second thinking about you. Leave that person who takes your love for granted and doesn’t love you back the way you do, love should be balanced not one sided. It’s better to be single than being in an ugly relationship that will make you miserable. It’s just not worth it.

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  1. Very good

  2. Hmmmm

  3. True sha

  4. Hmmmmm all true you can’t force your in something that is not meant to stay some things are meant to go

  5. Hmm

  6. Hmmm.
    I am just hmming

  7. Yeah it’s true forcing yourself on someone that doesn’t care about you isn’t good, you’ll only hurt yourself in the end

  8. This thing make me laugh

  9. Emotional

  10. Thanks for this piece of advice

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